I think in this day and age when almost everyone feels underpaid and over worked money can be a stressor. Well the guy im seeing is unhappy with hia current job situation. Not only that he needs to move and has other things stressing hin out as well. To top it off he doesnt eat on a consistent basis. I want to be yhe concerned girlfriend that I am but I dont want his stress either. I dont want my concern for him to turn into me taking it onto myself. I’m trying ti keep my stress level low. But I constantly worry about pleasing him. That’s bs I think. I should be enough…or am I being delusional when it comes to my contribution to the sucess of this relationship?