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Hello everyone.

Today new post in my series is on techniques is on how to give a good handjob!

A lot of women don’t know the proper way to give a good handjob at all. It’s a bit foreign to some. If you want to learn some techniques  or add to your repoitore please read on 🙂

One of the things you must keep in mind when performing a hand job on your man is the idea that you are re-creating your vagina with your hands.To a man, a vagina wells wet, tight but with a little give. Your job, when performing a hand job is to re-create this delectable environment for him. With that in mind, let’s begin.

Step 1. LUBE it up!

Lube is really important when giving a good handjob. Just like you don’t want him to touch you while your dry same applies for men. It doesn’t feel good. It’s a good idea to invest in a good water based lube. There are so many out there are the market to choose from. Just visit your local sex shop or you can browse online if you’d like. Let this be the foundation item in your arsenal

Step 2. The Warm up Massage

Use a firm grip that’s not too tight start from the base of his penis and work your hand up to the tip and loop it over before sliding back down. No need to do this part very quickly. It’s not a race, slow steady pace at first is a good way to warm him up and get thins started. Don’t stay at this stage for the rest of the night. That becomes boring and is not the way to a good hand job. There is no law that says he have to stroke his member with one hand only. Switch it up and use your non dominant hand for an added twist. Speaking of twisting, while one hands strokes up, grip the base of his dick and gently turn being careful not to turn his entire penis which is painful, but rather work your hand in a twisting motion at the base while your other hands continues to warm him up by using up and down strokes. This allows you to transition to interlacing your fingers as your stroke up one side and down the other. Use your imagination but don’t ever use your teeth, that’s a big no no!

Step 3. Switch your grip

Vary the intensity of your grip while you’re stroking his dick. It provides a whole new sensation but adds an interesting twist as well. You can even pause mid way and hold for a few seconds to interject a bit of anticipation and yearning then continue on. Now ladies, there is a ridge on the underside of his dick beneath the head that is very sensitive. Gently squeezing this area will provide a jolt of sensation before continuing on. Use it wisely *wink*

4. Use your vibrator on him

Vibrators are not only a vagina’s best friend? They also feel nice on the base of his dick or the entrance to his asshole.

I hope these help and remember no matter what sex is fun Enjoy your partner!

Stay tuned for next week’s 3-part series continued starting with “Let’s Talk About Sex After Dark Part 4: Tie me Up and Blind Fold me” next Monday night.

And here you thought Monday’s sucked!

 

Talk to you all later 🙂

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